You love each other,
but your conversations
aren't going well.
In this 90-minute live webinar, you'll learn why your conversations break down, how to name what's really going on beneath them, and how to respond in a way that builds connection instead of conflict.
You'll leave knowing your pattern, with the words to name what you feel and a plan for one real conversation this week.
Wednesday, November 4 · 6:30 PM Central
You're not in crisis.
You're not looking to get out.
But something feels off.
You've noticed:
- –Conversations don't go the way you hoped
- –Small things turn into bigger ones
- –Some topics don't feel worth bringing up
- –You love each other but don't always feel understood
You're not alone. And this is not random.
Most couples are stuck in a pattern they don't know how to name.
When this goes unnoticed:
- –You assume instead of ask
- –You react instead of reflect
- –You withdraw instead of engage
This webinar will help you see the pattern and begin interrupting it.
I didn't realize how often we were avoiding each other or getting defensive without understanding why. This helped me actually identify what I'm feeling in the moment and recognize what's going on in my spouse too. That awareness changed how I show up in our conversations.
Ty & Ariel · Married couple
In this session, we'll walk you through four core shifts.
Why your conversations keep breaking down
So you can recognize the pattern instead of repeating it.
How to identify what you're actually feeling
So you stop guessing and start communicating clearly.
How to respond instead of react
So conversations feel calmer, more productive, and more connecting.
What the way back looks like
The four steps couples take to climb from drifting apart to an eleven, so you know exactly where to start.
Even after years of counseling and coaching, we never had a clear way to understand and communicate our expectations. This gave us the language to say what we actually want, need, and fear without blaming each other. Our conversations are clearer and far less reactive.
Kate & Ben · Married couple
Not just insight.
Tools you'll use this week.
- Clarity on your patternYou'll see exactly where the two of you are in the 4 D's, and why your conversations keep breaking down.
- Words for what you actually feelThe first step of our Anchor Conversation, "Name it," practiced together live in a short guided couple exercise.
- A pause for heated momentsOne simple move to respond instead of react, before a small thing turns into a big one.
- A map of the way backThe four steps from drifting apart to an eleven, so you know what comes next for your marriage.
- A plan for one real conversationYou'll leave knowing how you'll handle your next hard conversation differently, this week.
Everything you need.
Nothing you don't.
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90-Minute Live Webinar
Wednesday, November 4. 75 minutes of teaching and guided practice, plus 15 minutes of live Q&A. A real working session, not a slide deck dump. Sean and Mendy are with you the whole time.
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1-Week Replay Access
Replay is available for 7 days after the session. Watch again at your own pace.
The 4 D's of Drift Exercise arrives with your reminder email · The Guided Prayer comes after the live session
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The 4 D's of Drift Exercise
A guided tool to identify the exact pattern affecting your relationship and where you are in it right now. Sent with your reminder email so you can bring it to the session.
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Guided Prayer for Your Spouse
A structured, scripture-rooted way to move from frustration to intentional support; for him and for her.
This helped me put words to what actually makes me feel safe and supported in our relationship and communicate it in a way my spouse can understand. We're not guessing anymore. We're responding to each other with more intention, and it's changed the tone of our relationship.
Austin & Wendy · Married couple
Who this is for.
This IS for you
- ✓You're committed to your marriage, full stop.
- ✓You're not in active crisis.
- ✓You want deeper connection, not surface-level advice.
- ✓You're willing to look honestly at what's not working.
- ✓You're ready to grow, not just consume content.
This is NOT for you
- –You're in active crisis and need emergency counseling.
- –Only one of you wants to be here.
- –You want someone to tell you who's right and who's wrong.
- –You're looking for a quick fix with no effort.
- –You're not open to looking honestly at yourself first.
What you're signing up for.
The Anchored Marriage
A Live 90-Minute Webinar for Married Couples
- Date: Wednesday, November 4 at 6:30 PM Central
- Length: 90 minutes (75 minutes of teaching + 15 minutes of live Q&A)
- Replay: Available for 1 week after the session
- Format: Live online session. Plan to sit together, side by side, for the couple exercises
- Capacity: Limited to 200 couples
- Included: The 4 D's of Drift Exercise (sent with your reminder email) + Guided Prayer for Your Spouse (sent after the session)
- Optional next step: At the end, we'll share how a few couples can keep going with us in a small 8-week cohort. No pressure
Last week, we had a conversation that normally would have turned into an argument and it didn't. I was able to name what I was feeling, communicate it clearly, and stay grounded. That alone felt like a shift for us.
Steve & Mary · Married couple
We've walked this road.
We're not guessing.
We're Sean and Mendy and we know what it's like to love each other deeply and still feel disconnected in ways you can't quite name.
We've been where you are. We've had the conversations that went sideways. We've felt the slow drift that happens when life gets full and intentionality gets pushed aside.
What we built at 11 Marriage isn't theory. It's the tools we wish we'd had: practical, structured, faith-rooted frameworks that create real change in the day-to-day moments of marriage.
We won't preach at you. We'll show you how to actually talk to each other and actually feel heard.
Ordinary isn't the goal.
11 is.
Your marriage is worth more than one more year of conversations that don't go anywhere. Spend 90 minutes with us on November 4. That's where it starts.
Secure your spot below.
Complete your registration. Watch your inbox: your 4 D's of Drift Exercise comes with your reminder email before the webinar, and your Guided Prayer for Your Spouse arrives after the live session.
